Waking at night is one method the subconscious uses to bubble issues to the surface of your awareness to complete their processing. Insomnia – a chronic pattern of wakefulness at night – is in fact indicative of your chronic avoidance of an issue that is […]
Read MoreWe are culturally conditioned to believe that breaking rules is an existential threat. But until we break a rule, there is no possibility for us outside of the world of the rules we live in. To live as a creative force in your life, find […]
Read MoreYou are what you HATE in other people. (If ‘hate’ is too strong a word for you, then your aversion is even stronger evidence that the following applies to you.) Yes, even those political leaders you despise. You ARE that. You hate it because it […]
Read MoreAccepting something that you do not want may contain wisdom, but if in your acceptance you suppress something that matters to you, then it will actually serve to imprison you rather than give you freedom. Your desire is your potential to express your unique self. […]
Read MoreAre you finding it difficult to focus on creating your life and your business now that you are quarantined with noisy kids, or the intrusive sounds of family members or housemates? The one piece of ‘tech’ I now can’t live without is… ear plugs! Earplugs […]
Read MoreThe word ‘someday’ usually sucks. I say usually, because most of the time people use this word as a way of abdicating their power to create. They might say they are ‘going with the flow’, but they are essentially a leaf in the wind. I […]
Read MoreIf you work in a service based industry, then as important as believing in the value of your offering, is believing in a specific and financially measurable value of your work. The greater the specificity you bring to this value, the more possible it is […]
Read More‘I want you to be my coach someday’ is something I hear often. There are two problems with this. THE FIRST PROBLEM is the idea that typically sits behind it: ‘I don’t have enough money to hire the coach that can help me make more […]
Read MoreEven more important than your relationship, is your relationship to your relationship. This is your meta-relationship. Maintaining an idea of your relationship as strong and beautiful – seeing it as a positive aspect of your life – is a perspective always available to you. This […]
Read MoreSuccessful entrepreneurs know the distinction of working ON your business vs IN yours business. They get that there is more leverage in growing a business by slowing down and taking time to look at and improve the overall strategy and internal operations of the business […]
Read MoreIf something seems absurd to you, it is likely because you would judge yourself as absurd if you were to act that way. So behind any absurdity you see ‘out there’, sits the version of yourself that deep down you actually fear yourself to be. […]
Read MoreOne of the ways I’ve learned how to be happy is to walk away from everything. For years during my 20’s I lived nomadically buying only one way tickets around the world, moving on any time I no longer felt happy. Without hesitation, I moved […]
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