Category: ‘How To’

Speaking a vision into the world throws a hook out into your envisioned future and draws you towards that future. When you speak about what you are creating in the world, the path to it unfolds backwards from that vision towards you. As the possibility […]

Ignorance is a state that is born of avoidance and evasiveness; your unwillingness to acknowledge what is present. It is rooted in fear and has you unconsciously consumed by your avoidance. Ignoring is an action of your choosing because it can only occur after acknowledging […]

The power you have to create the results you want in your work and life is defined by the difference you make in the time it takes you to make it. To reach our goals then, we typically focus on increasing our ability to make […]

Do you ever find it challenging to be in action, despite knowing the results you want to create in your life? Here are three new reasons to take action that you may not have considered before. 1) Your Learning Over-identifying with results can lead to […]

Do you ever experience overwhelm of too many people wanting your help? A client of mine was asking how I deal with this as they were hesitating to extend themselves more widely out of a worry that they wouldn’t be able to keep up with […]

You want more power and that’s OK. Don’t resist it. And do not be ashamed of it. The desire for power is natural and good. Think of Gandhi and Martin Luther King – two super powers in Creating freedom, love and beauty in our world. […]

My ‘ABC’ rule is the foundation of my simple strategy to generate a constant stream of valuable ideas to share with others. A: Always B: Be C: Coaching Every new idea I come up with is born in dialogue. In fact, within every coaching conversation […]

If another’s words or actions affect you in such a way that you have no choice but to react, then you are fuckwithable. To be unfuckwithable, then, is to have choice in how you react. When you are unfuckwithable, you can respond freely. When you […]

Waking at night is one method the subconscious uses to bubble issues to the surface of your awareness to complete their processing. Insomnia – a chronic pattern of wakefulness at night – is in fact indicative of your chronic avoidance of an issue that is […]

One way of combatting fear is to use the well-known philosophy ‘feel the fear and do it anyway’. While this can be pragmatic, it actually limits your power to create to utilizing the ‘fight’ response. This approach is fatiguing and also only fulfilling in the […]