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A Call for Presence

When my son was about a year old, I once covered his ears while a firetruck was driving by us with it’s sirens blaring. Since shortly after this he has taken to covering his own ears whenever he hears a siren. Most often, at first […]

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Meeting Life Not-Knowing – Unarmed vs Disarmed

When I was younger and travelling, I sometimes carried a knife. I carried it for defence in case I met violence. After a while I stopped carrying it though. I had gotten a sense that by pro-actively protecting myself against potential violence, I was also […]

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The Vanishing Act

Recently at the playground, an older boy grabbed the ball from my son’s hands and threw it over the wall. The moment it happened, I felt a slight tension around my solar plexus and a memory from the schoolyard in my youth flashed across my […]

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Remembering the Not Knowing

Five years ago I was in Spain with my girlfriend. We were doing a juice fast at a health resort. I took my lady for a walk one evening to see the orange groves and on the way back, we caught the sun setting through […]

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The Happiest Guy I Know

Throughout my late twenties and into my thirties, I had said often to myself and others, “I’m the happiest guy I know”. It always just occurred to me to be the case, as I was generally quite happy with everything in life; work, family, relationships, […]

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Anger is Love Misguided

Recently, my wife and I got into an argument. It happened in seconds, like a flash fire in a pan. Seemingly out of nowhere we were shouting at each other about something inane. And then, just as quickly as it had come, it ended. Somehow […]

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Alpha Omega Leader

Our evolution is accelerating. Technology, medicine, climate, economics, politics and religion – all changing rapidly and causing disruption. While in ways the world is coming together, an underbelly of fear is also driving greater separation. Questions on the minds of many leaders are: How do […]

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The (In)Consequentiality of Circumstance

There is a man who lives in a van that frequents a cafe I visit once or twice a day. I go there to break up the energy of being in my studio. Mostly I drink decaf lattes. They tell me I’m the only one […]

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How to Have Success – Create vs Make

[ New Distinctions for Entrepreneurs – Part 12 of 12 ] To ‘make’ something is to bring it into form of your own accord. It is to be the full cause for a thing’s existence. When we use the word ‘create’ however, there is a […]

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How to Pitch – Impact vs Impress

[ New Distinctions for Entrepreneurs – Part 1 of 12 ] The typical orientation when ‘pitching’ your business is to impress your audience so that they will want what you have. What if instead of pitching to impress, you pitched to impact? What if the […]

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How to Have Fulfillment Without Effort

We are presumed to agree that a fulfilling life comes through strenuous effort. What if this isn’t true? Or at least, what if having to ‘compete’ and ‘struggle’ is not the only path to fulfillment? What if there is another way? A way that is […]

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How to Have Better Success – Qualitative vs Quantitative

The dominant paradigm for success is that of a quantitative measure. Inculcated with this worldview by an industrialized education system, we unconsciously measure success by ‘how much’ is achieved. We don’t consider this is only one way to measure success. Without even realising it, we […]

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