When you realise that you have done something that is not in alignment with your deepest values, any self-judgement – even a micro-judgement like ‘I shouldn’t have done that’ – is unhelpful. Instead, re-member your innocence. You can only do, in any moment, what you […]
Read MoreSometimes my clients transcribe our conversations when reviewing their recordings of them. It’s a great practice that deepens learning. Last week an entrepreneur I work with shared his transcription of our dialogue. It sparked me to write a bit here about the topic we were […]
Read MoreWhen creating with others, if you find yourself asking “what is the next step?”, then realize you are actually BEING ‘what is the next step’ and this state of being is actually an abdication of your power to create. As an alternative, I suggest you […]
Read MoreSpirituality without action can create wellbeing but generates little results outside of you. Action without spirit creates plenty of results, but these results are often disjointed and unfulfilling. You can have it all though. By integrating spirit (or intuition) with decisive action you can create […]
Read MoreDo you manage fear by putting limiting thoughts and feelings aside so that you can think and feel positively? Please stop.??♂️ Because you’re making it worse. ??♂️ Instead, use this simple self-enquiry to liberate yourself from the fear completely. 1. Finish this sentence: “I am […]
Read MoreWhen you notice that things in your life aren’t exactly as you’d like them to be – or when you find people irritating or annoying – step out of the matrix for a moment. Consider the fact that what you’re hating is occurring right now, […]
Read MoreWhen the ‘engine’ of your mind is revving with thoughts, ideas and actions, meditation can create spaciousness between you and that mental activity. Cultivating a regular practice allows you to let the engine of the mind to ‘rev’ without any need to do or say […]
Read MoreEvery morning begin your day with one question: ‘What would I love to create today?’ Write down your answers as actions. Next, prioritise each action by power. Ask yourself: ‘What difference will each action make?’ The actions that make the biggest difference in the least […]
Read MoreChoosing to rest in the bliss of inner stillness is one half of The Creating Perspective. So don’t just do something. Sit there! The other half though, is utilizing will, thought and action to generate a state of being that produces results. So don’t just […]
Read MoreThe opportunity you have to influence a person or a circumstance increases exponentially when you can love them or it exactly as they are. This is the paradox and the power of creating with love.
Read MoreAnything that you attempt to control will end up controlling you. Instead, learn to welcome the parts of yourself that you’d rather turn away from. Learn to love your metaphorical ‘shit’. Do this, and what once limited you will become manure for your growth.
Read MoreI noticed myself having a judgmental thought about my wife. She wasn’t even in the room. But I was aware enough to immediately forgive myself for it. Then I asked myself where the thought came from. I saw the fear; I brought light to my […]
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