When you realise that you have done something that is not in alignment with your deepest values, any self-judgement – even a micro-judgement like ‘I shouldn’t have done that’ – is unhelpful. Instead, re-member your innocence. You can only do, in any moment, what you […]
Read MoreWhen the ‘engine’ of your mind is revving with thoughts, ideas and actions, meditation can create spaciousness between you and that mental activity. Cultivating a regular practice allows you to let the engine of the mind to ‘rev’ without any need to do or say […]
Read MoreEvery morning begin your day with one question: ‘What would I love to create today?’ Write down your answers as actions. Next, prioritise each action by power. Ask yourself: ‘What difference will each action make?’ The actions that make the biggest difference in the least […]
Read MoreChoosing to rest in the bliss of inner stillness is one half of The Creating Perspective. So don’t just do something. Sit there! The other half though, is utilizing will, thought and action to generate a state of being that produces results. So don’t just […]
Read MoreThe opportunity you have to influence a person or a circumstance increases exponentially when you can love them or it exactly as they are. This is the paradox and the power of creating with love.
Read MoreAnything that you attempt to control will end up controlling you. Instead, learn to welcome the parts of yourself that you’d rather turn away from. Learn to love your metaphorical ‘shit’. Do this, and what once limited you will become manure for your growth.
Read MoreI noticed myself having a judgmental thought about my wife. She wasn’t even in the room. But I was aware enough to immediately forgive myself for it. Then I asked myself where the thought came from. I saw the fear; I brought light to my […]
Read MoreEvery action we take invokes and emboldens the meaning we make not only about that action, but also its opposite. For example, the more I choose to have everybody be worthy of my attention, time and love, the more I spontaneously experience myself as worthy […]
Read MoreTo be fully in the flow of service to others is easy when you take your ‘self’ out of the equation. As a means of doing this, simply assume that every inspiration to speak, act or give to another has come to you purely for […]
Read MoreWhen I’m conscious, I operate from the perspective that anything another person does that I don’t like is being created by me. I mean this in two ways. First, that I am creating my experience of another person’s behavior as undesirable by how I’m thinking […]
Read MoreWho we be in the world creates an idea of us in the minds of others. This idea then acts as an opposing force that keeps our identity in place. When I was a teenager, I was extremely sarcastic. To the point that I became […]
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