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‘I want you to be my coach someday’ is something I hear often. There are two problems with this. THE FIRST PROBLEM is the idea that typically sits behind it: ‘I don’t have enough money to hire the coach that can help me make more […]

Even more important than your relationship, is your relationship to your relationship. This is your meta-relationship. Maintaining an idea of your relationship as strong and beautiful – seeing it as a positive aspect of your life – is a perspective always available to you. This […]

Successful entrepreneurs know the distinction of working ON your business vs IN yours business. They get that there is more leverage in growing a business by slowing down and taking time to look at and improve the overall strategy and internal operations of the business […]

If something seems absurd to you, it is likely because you would judge yourself as absurd if you were to act that way. So behind any absurdity you see ‘out there’, sits the version of yourself that deep down you actually fear yourself to be. […]

One of the ways I’ve learned how to be happy is to walk away from everything. For years during my 20’s I lived nomadically buying only one way tickets around the world, moving on any time I no longer felt happy. Without hesitation, I moved […]

What is the difference between acknowledging and referencing the source of an idea? To reference is to state that your idea does not come from you. While it is beneficial for others to follow an idea back to its source, over-referencing often comes from a […]

When you say or do something that isn’t your ideal, how do you treat yourself? Do you judge yourself for your ‘shit’? If so, then I suggest you try loving your shit instead. When you look in the toilet at your actual shit, do you […]

When you ask somebody if they want to buy something, you are asking them to consider that question based on their understanding of what you have to offer. If they say ‘no’, they are saying no to what they understand. What if instead of asking […]

Are you blocked or procrastinating in reaching your goals? Great! ? Failure to act on a goal is the perfect opportunity to understand what is happening outside of your awareness. It is a doorway to deep and purposeful self-creation. Look at your goal and ask […]

When the Declaration of Independence was signed on the 4th of July 1776, there was no pre-existing evidence of independence. The declaration was an act of conception – it created the independence between Great Britain and the colonies. In this same way, declaring who you […]

There is little functional use of the phrase “I don’t know” other than avoidance. When you speak the words “I don’t know” in response to an inquiry, you abdicate your power to create. Instead, be willing to stay with the inquiry. If you catch yourself […]

While it may be obvious to you that judging someone is unreasonable, your awareness alone will typically not be enough to remove your judgment. Judgment is a glue that can hold irrational ideas in place, even in the light of awareness! So what can you […]