No complaint is ever really about you. Nor is any compliment. People speak what they see and they see what they are. However, the meaning we make of what people say does have impact on us. And people do complain. If you think about it […]
Read MoreDo you ever experience overwhelm of too many people wanting your help? A client of mine was asking how I deal with this as they were hesitating to extend themselves more widely out of a worry that they wouldn’t be able to keep up with […]
Read MoreYou want more power and that’s OK. Don’t resist it. And do not be ashamed of it. The desire for power is natural and good. Think of Gandhi and Martin Luther King – two super powers in Creating freedom, love and beauty in our world. […]
Read MoreThe idea, popular in self-help culture, that everything we feel is real may at first be liberating, but inevitably it becomes a trap. The experiences of your past have collected within your body and predispose your neurology; everything you see and feel is experienced through […]
Read MoreThrough parental and societal conditioning, many people find themselves looking for the answers to their problems outside of themselves, and when they embark on a spiritual path they become either a seeker, or someone who is waiting to be saved. This weak spot is often […]
Read MoreMy ‘ABC’ rule is the foundation of my simple strategy to generate a constant stream of valuable ideas to share with others. A: Always B: Be C: Coaching Every new idea I come up with is born in dialogue. In fact, within every coaching conversation […]
Read MoreIf you are making the money you need to survive, then what may be in the way of you making even more money is the idea that making more money than you need is not OK. Ask yourself the question formulated by Harvard psychologist Robert […]
Read MoreIf you can see someone doing something you would love to do and feel that it is not possible for you to do it too, then I have some exciting news for you. Seeing a possibility is all that you need to access it. And […]
Read MoreYour being ripples outwards indefinitely and creates the entire world. It affects not only the people in your immediate sphere of influence but also the people they interact with, and who those people influence and on and on. Every moment of your life – every […]
Read MoreIf another’s words or actions affect you in such a way that you have no choice but to react, then you are fuckwithable. To be unfuckwithable, then, is to have choice in how you react. When you are unfuckwithable, you can respond freely. When you […]
Read MoreWaking at night is one method the subconscious uses to bubble issues to the surface of your awareness to complete their processing. Insomnia – a chronic pattern of wakefulness at night – is in fact indicative of your chronic avoidance of an issue that is […]
Read MoreWe are culturally conditioned to believe that breaking rules is an existential threat. But until we break a rule, there is no possibility for us outside of the world of the rules we live in. To live as a creative force in your life, find […]
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